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Declutter something from your life was never been easy. It takes a lot of courage. Declutter can make your life feel better because it forces you to just keep whatever that important and throw away whatever is unnecessary even though it has a lot of history.

I often bought many things that unnecessary just because it is cute or attract me when the first time I saw it. Most things that I impulsively bought are clothes. It makes my wardrobe full. Most of them I rarely wear so it just makes me waste my money. Declutter is one of the ways that can help me to solve this kind of problem. I have to let go of all the unnecessary clothes, then I can sell them as preloved or I can donate them. When you want to declutter your wardrobe or tidy up your home, you can watch Marie Kondo show on Netflix or just simply read her books to get inspiration and learn about the art of tidying up.

Declutter can also be applied to your feelings and any other things like I've mentioned before. You can let go of your ex (lol :D) or you can let go whatever that makes you have low self-esteem, such as insecurity, not believing your own self, feeling not enough, etc. Those kinds of feelings can lead you to negativity or even worst.

You can try self-compassion to get rid of low self-esteem. There are three key points of self-compassion: self-kindness, mindfulness, and common humanity. I don't want to explain it in detail on this post but you can try to cultivate the three key points on your mindset every day. It would help you to apply self-compassion in your everyday life. I personally still try to learn to apply it but it's okay.

Happy old year

Happy old year official poster via imdb.com

Happy old year is a Thai movie that can teach us about declutter and its process. The story is about a lady named Jean who comes back to Thailand after several years of living aboard. She decided to renovate her home and get rid of all the old unnecessary stuff but has a lot of history. It was a long way journey until she is finally able to renovate her home and rearranging her feelings.
It was really interesting to watch, so I suggest all of you watch this movie especially when you want to declutter something or you have a problem with letting go.

well, all I want to say on this post is you can declutter whatever unnecessary things that make you unhappy or makes you feel worst. I know it never been easy, but all of you deserve to live a happy life so just let go and get rid of all of your problems but don't get away from it. Solve it and let go.

XOXO,
-m

First of all, I would like to say happy Eid al-Fitr for those who celebrate. May all of you have a wonderful time with your family at home because we still have to stay at home due to our country quarantine regulation. I hope that you and your family are safe and healthy.

So, my Raya outfit isn't that special and super effortless because I just wear whatever that already available on my wardrobe, and all of them are old pieces that I already owned. Maybe for some people, Raya is about a new piece of cloths but for me especially this year I don't buy any because I just stay at home.




I got my purple velvet outer from a local online store that I owned named Imajiku. You can check it on Instagram @imajiku_ but recently it temporarily closed and will open again soon. I got my white T-shirt from H&M. It just a basic white T-shirt and actually you can find it anywhere but this one is my favorite because the fabric was really nice. I got my white culottes jeans from Stradivarius. Well this one is one of my favorite pants and I often wore it anywhere. It's really easy to style and quite comfy, also it fits me well because it is an Asian cut. And lastly, I got my mules from a store in Bangkok. My mom bought it for me. I don't really remember the store name that my mom ever mention to me, but I think you can find a similar item on Chatuchak market.

wishing all of you have a nice day!
XOXO,
-m

One of the most important thing that I have to bring everywhere is lipstick and I can't live without it. Daily, I always wear lipstick, except if I just stay at home all day. I think lipstick is the most important makeup for me because I usually wear natural makeup look so I rarely wear something too heavy on my face like foundation or contour. Or if I'm too lazy to wear makeup I just need to put on lipstick and just go outside. It can help me to not to look pale.
So, today I want to share with you a few of my current favorite lipstick that wherever I go, I will always bring one or two of them inside my bag.
Some of my friends have been asking about what lips product that I usually wear, I hope this post can help my friends and whoever read this.
All of my favorite lipstick are local products. lately, I've been obsessed with local brand products because they now have great quality and various choices of products. Also, it fits more with my skin tone. All of them I found online from their website or Instagram.
 I love lipstick shade that has a brownish-red tone or just simply red lipstick. I think it would look good on my face rather than a lipstick that has a pink tone. All of my favorite product has velvet to matte finish. I don't like a lipstick that has crazily matte finish because it fell uncomfortable.
I already swatch 4 shades of my favorite lips product down bellow. It may seem slightly similar but actually, it is not. because all of them have velvet to matte finish so they are not transfer-proof but it doesn't bother me anyway.
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Due to my current condition, lately, I find that I'm kind of zoning out and feel unconnected to my world. Let's say that I'm kind of unmotivated and need to reconnect back. I feel like I'm not productive and literally do nothing. For a while, I just blame my self because I'm so lazy and why I'm being such a loner and anti-social kind of person while other people seem to learn new things and still can catch up with their society. Overthink haunts me every time.
But the fact is it's okay to zone out for a while, it's okay to be a loner for a certain time, it's okay if you feel sad and need to be unconnected from the world. You just have to take it easy and enjoy your time. Sometimes, people just have to be alone so they can reflect back and learn or to seek for inspiration and inner peace.
After a while, I feel much better. So, I try to reach some of my closest friends to simply just ask about how they're doing or share about life updates. I also share what I've been feeling lately and hopefully It helps me a lot through my uncertain conditions and quite helping me to reconnect back to society. And I begin to have the inspiration to write my blog after a while.
The conclusion is life is beautiful like the flower on my headline picture. So, you just have to take your time and whatever you've been through right now, I believe you're going to be okay.

XOXO
-m